How to Plan an Elopement: Your Ultimate Checklist
You know you want to elope – the harder question is how to actually make it happen. Planning an elopement takes real organization, even when the guest list is just the two of you. Here’s the checklist I walk my own couples through.
Start with the vibe, then set a budget
Before anything else, picture your dream day. Are you saying “I do” on top of a mountain, or on a beach with a small circle of people you love? Let that image guide everything that follows – the playlist you brainstorm to, the elopement photography that inspires you, even the season you choose. Once you know the vibe, build a real budget around it: an elopement photographer, marriage license, travel, and lodging all add up, so decide early what matters most and let that guide the rest.
Choose your location and build your team
If you’re staying in the U.S., I’m partial to the PNW – a cabin elopement up in the mountains is about as dreamy as it gets. If you’re open to traveling further, an elopement in Iceland is genuinely unforgettable. Wherever you land, book your photographer, hair and stylist, and any other vendors early, especially if you need them to travel with you.
Attire, glam, and the legal logistics
Elopements have come a long way from a quick courthouse “I do” – glam is half the fun now. Check the weather for your season and pack accordingly (yes, that includes hiking boots and a raincoat if you’re headed outdoors). Then handle the unglamorous but essential part: marriage license requirements vary by state, so confirm whether you need an officiant or witnesses, and make sure you have every document in hand well before your date.
Planning your dream elopement will always be easier with someone in your corner who’s done this before. I do my best to make sure every elopement I’m part of is unique, unforgettable, and stress-free – logistics included. If you’re ready to start checking things off this list together, reach out and let’s talk about your day.
If this list already feels like a lot, that is why I built the all-inclusive elopement package at That PNW Cabin, where most of it is handled for you.
Frequently asked questions
What’s the first step in planning an elopement?
Start by deciding on the vibe you want – mountains, beach, forest, or somewhere else entirely. That vision will guide your budget, location, and every other decision after it.
Do we need a marriage license to elope?
Yes, and requirements vary by state or country, including how far in advance you need to apply and whether you need witnesses or an officiant – check your specific location’s rules early.
Where do you recommend eloping?
For couples staying in the U.S., I love a PNW cabin elopement in the mountains. For something further afield, an Iceland elopement is unforgettable.
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