Your Elopement & Wedding Questions, Answered
Whether you’re planning a wedding with two hundred of your closest friends or an elopement with just the two of you, the questions tend to be the same – and they deserve real answers, not just vague reassurance. Here’s what I tell couples when they first reach out.
Do you help with more than just the photos?
Yes, always. Planning an elopement means juggling a hundred small details, and I’m not the kind of photographer who shows up, shoots, and leaves. I scout locations ahead of time, help build a loose itinerary for the day, and talk through logistics with you so nothing catches you off guard. My goal is for your elopement day to feel calm and completely yours.
Do we need an officiant?
It depends entirely on where you elope. Some states require an officiant (and sometimes witnesses); others don’t require anyone but the two of you. Before you book flights or a venue, it’s worth checking the marriage laws for your specific state or country so there are no surprises.
How do we include family from far away?
This comes up a lot, and there’s no single right answer. Some of my favorite ideas from past couples: shopping for elopement attire together before the trip, hosting a family dinner the week before, having family stand in as witnesses at the courthouse, video-calling everyone the morning of, or throwing a celebration afterward where you walk everyone through the day – photos, stories, and all.
Where should we go, and what should we wear?
Anywhere that feels like you. I’ve had couples elope on top of Mt. Rainier and couples who flew all the way to Iceland for it. My newest favorite is That PNW Cabin, a cozy all-inclusive spot tucked in the mountains. As for attire – there’s no rule. Wear a full wedding gown or your favorite flannel and hiking boots. Wear whatever makes you feel like the most confident version of yourself.
And if you’re staring down a blank page trying to write vows: there’s no wrong way to do it. Write about what drove you to love this person, what you’re promising to build together, and the small, specific things about them you don’t want to forget. That’s it. That’s the whole secret.
If your question isn’t answered here, that just means we should talk. I’d love to hear about the day you’re dreaming up.
The short version: I shoot weddings and elopements wherever you want to have one, and I also host all-inclusive elopements at That PNW Cabin here in Washington.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need a marriage officiant to elope?
It depends on the state or country – some require an officiant and witnesses, others don’t. Check the marriage laws for your specific location before you book anything.
Do you help plan the elopement, or just take photos?
Both. I scout locations, help build an itinerary, and talk through logistics so your day runs smoothly – photography is just part of it.
Do you travel internationally for elopements?
Yes – I’ve photographed elopements across six continents, including an all-inclusive package in Iceland, plus regular work throughout the PNW.
How much does it cost to elope at That PNW Cabin?
The package is $6,500. That covers three nights at the cabin for the two of you, full day photography, planning and the schedule for the day, all the decor with setup and takedown, dinner and reception setup for up to 14 guests, and the wood fired hot tub, infrared sauna and firepit.
What is included in the cabin elopement package?
A three night stay at the cabin. Elopement planning and a schedule. Full day photography with 800 or more edited photos. Setup and take down of all decorations. Decor, glassware, dinnerware, tables and chairs, linens, candlesticks, faux florals and a bouquet. Dinner and reception setup for up to 14 guests. The wood fired hot tub, infrared sauna and firepit. Eight to twelve hours of me and my assistant.
How many guests can come to a cabin elopement?
Dinner and reception setup covers up to 14 guests.
How far is That PNW Cabin from the airport?
Roughly 90 minutes from SEA airport, in the heart of the Cascade Mountains.
When do we get our photos?
Your full gallery is delivered within 30 days of your wedding.
What is needed to book our date?
A 20% deposit and a signed contract hold your date.
Do you charge travel fees?
No. I work worldwide and split my time between Seattle and Joshua Tree, and there are no travel fees wherever you are.
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